Posted on: 15 May 2009

Anorgasmia

Filed under: HerSolution   by Saki

Anorgasmia is the very simple issue when you fail to reach a climax during sexual intercourse. However, do not be misled into thinking that it is a situation caused due to the disinterest on the part of the perpetrator of the act. You may be perfectly ready and turned on for that high climax, but it will never come. Mostly, it is a case that is more common in women than in men.

Science has always seen the man as having problems with his sex life as a very big issue while the same for a woman has never really been probed into. Double standards of the society have just reached another level where the sexual act becomes more important for a man while for a woman it is just fulfilling another need. There are so many things that are advertised for men, erectile dysfunction, ejaculatory problems, short duration of erection etc. But no one has ever looked into whether or not a woman’s desires are fulfilled or not.

So, the spotlight is now on you and your sex life.

Women have been sexually dissatisfied for ages. Sex for them was only a means of production and not enjoyment or physical fulfillment. It was seen as one more of the many duties that they were burdened with by their husband and family. For centuries, more than sixty five percent of all the women have been dissatisfied with their sex life with more than ten percent of them never even feeling one orgasm! True that, women have a high arousal rate and can stay excited for a prolonged time. However, orgasm is something that most women fail to reach and that is mainly through the ineptitude of their male partners.

It is not as if anorgasmia does not happen to males, but with women it is a more widespread one.

Primarily, the condition is of two types, primary and secondary. Primary anorgasmia is the condition where the woman has never encountered an orgasm while in the second case the woman has previous experience of orgasms but for some reason she cannot attain them at present. In such cases, you should always consult your doctor first. Check if there is any illness which is causing anorgasmia and once that is checked then you can look for other reasons why you are not able to reach an orgasm. Sometimes, boring sex life can be the reason and in other you may need to visit a sex therapist for the same.

However, the best would be to use HerSolution, a cent percent natural oral supplement that will effectively allow you to regain orgasms, better and higher than the past ones.

HerSolution, an oral supplement made from natural ingredients, has the means to help. It increases blood flow to the genitals and helps your body create natural lubricant in times of vaginal dryness. More importantly to someone with anorgasmia of any kind, HerSolution balances hormones and increases sensations to help you reach orgasm. It is safe and effective to use with any medications you may be taking.

Filed under: HerSolution   by Saki

For every relationship to succeed, you need a good communication system. If you cannot talk things out with your partner then misunderstandings will increase with the increasing dissatisfaction within you. However, you may be keeping quite because you feel your partner may get hurt by what you say. But, trust me, things won’t be helped this way and when it comes to sex, things won’t obviously work by keeping quite.

Sex is a very sensitive subject in any relationship; many good ones have been known to break down simply because there were problems in the sex life of the couple. So, it is better to talk it out today rather than wait till your divorce when everything has already gone beyond repair. See, basically, talking it all out will also help you and your partner understand each other’s needs properly. It can be that even he wants to talk to you but is just having second thoughts on the matter, like you. For, how would you know what is in his mind if you do not open up? So, get talking and solve problems the easy way.

I can understand that telling your partner, you are not satisfied with sex will be a big blow to him but you have to do it for your own good. Love is one thing and compromises another, and you should be very clear about what you want. I am not asking you to say it to him just when you’ll are having sex or just had it. But you can bring up the topic after a few hours maybe, suggesting that you try out some other method or way and see, if that is more fun. Gradually you can talk about what is ailing you in your sex life and I am sure your partner will understand. Keeping a space open for talk on sex in the relationship will ensure happiness and contentment on both of your parts.

The primary things that you should do while preparing to talk about sex are as follows:

Make a note of everything you want to say or address. Write them down so that you have clear ideas of what you expect or want from your partner in relation to what you are getting from him. Try and tone down the language that you are going to use to address the issue so that he does not get too sensitized at the immediate beginning. Broach the topic as suggestive and not one with a complaining tone to it.

HerSolution is a safe and effective natural supplement for enhancing female libido. It works by increasing blood flow to the genitals and creating natural lubrication to avoid vaginal dryness.

HerSolution also balances your hormone levels and increases sensations to touch to help you reach orgasm more easily.